{"id":1314,"date":"2017-11-07T16:12:32","date_gmt":"2017-11-07T16:12:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/blog\/?p=1314"},"modified":"2018-06-14T01:21:06","modified_gmt":"2018-06-14T01:21:06","slug":"5-simple-ways-to-end-mental-clutter-forever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/5-simple-ways-to-end-mental-clutter-forever","title":{"rendered":"5 Simple Ways To End Mental Clutter Forever"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Author of <strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video2\">Manifestation Miracle<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><em><strong>Do you want to unlock your inner power to <strong>manifest the life<\/strong> you&#8217;ve been dreaming of? Don&#8217;t forget to check out the\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video2\"><em>Manifestation Miracle<\/em><\/a>\u00a0program&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>5 Simple Ways To End Mental Clutter Forever<\/h2>\n<p>Hey there, hope you&#8217;re well.<\/p>\n<p>I remember watching one of those home makeover shows on TV (back when I still had a TV) where they help people with their house situations. One case, in particular, struck me because this elderly woman had this chronic habit of hoarding stuff.<\/p>\n<p>After the hosts did a tour through her humble home, it was pretty obvious she needed help.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, &#8220;<strong>help<\/strong>&#8221; doesn&#8217;t quite fit it &#8211; she needed an <strong>INTERVENTION<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Just getting through the front door was a struggle. They literally had to squeeze themselves in through stacked, wall-to-wall towers of newspapers, magazines and strewn pizza boxes.<\/p>\n<p>And that was just the tip of the trash-berg. As they negotiated their way into the other rooms, they came upon even more piles of knick-knacks and other material possessions.<\/p>\n<h1>It was clear that it didn&#8217;t serve any purpose aside from taking up physical space. Not only was it suffocating her very way of life, the homeowner was living in a fire hazard.<\/h1>\n<p>The homeowner seemed like a nice enough lady, but there was something going on with her. And all the useless piles of stuff cluttering her house were a <strong>manifestation<\/strong> of her eroding mental state.<\/p>\n<p>You probably don&#8217;t have the same hoarding tendencies as her, but it&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;re dealing with a <strong>different kind<\/strong> of clutter.<\/p>\n<p>Most people don&#8217;t surround themselves with actual trash, but they do it <em>mentally<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>For one reason or another, they tend to fill their heads with endless noise that is useful to <strong>NO ONE<\/strong>. The mind has a way of curating these <strong>meaningless<\/strong> bits of information just because it can.<\/p>\n<p>And if you let it go unchecked, you&#8217;ll waste precious time and energy that could have been used somewhere else more <strong>productive<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But where does this mental clutter come from? Let\u2019s take a closer look at the four biggest culprits:<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Culprit #1: Everyday Stuff<\/h3>\n<p>Your daily obligations make up a huge chunk of mental clutter. They\u2019re the most <strong>immediate<\/strong>, pressing concerns that turn the gears in your head the most.<\/p>\n<p>At any given moment, you could be thinking of the following:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What you\u2019re going to have for dinner<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Your annoying co-worker who forgot to shower again today<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; The account number of the water bill that you misplaced this morning<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; How much traffic is going to suck on the way home<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Your kid\u2019s homework that&#8217;s due tomorrow, of course<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; The Internet at home is spotty again, which means you can kiss your Netflix session later goodbye<\/p>\n<p>And the list goes on\u2026<\/p>\n<h3>Culprit #2: Future Stuff<\/h3>\n<p>Aside from the present, you\u2019re also worried about things that <strong>haven\u2019t<\/strong> come to pass. It could be your career prospects, the direction of your relationship, your kids\u2019 college fund, or asking your boss for a raise.<\/p>\n<p>These <strong>future scenarios<\/strong> weigh just as heavily on your mind. Simply thinking of all the possible outcomes for each of these are enough to fill your head with a truckload of \u2018what-ifs\u2019.<\/p>\n<h3>Culprit #3: Past Stuff<\/h3>\n<p>Ever had something so bad happen to you that you still remember <strong>every detail<\/strong> to this day?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you took it personally when your partner criticized you. Your boss might have chewed you out while everyone was in earshot and you haven\u2019t stopped feeling bad about it.<\/p>\n<p>Or it could even be that one time in fifth grade when someone made fun of you in front of the whole class. Up to now, you remember exactly the way they laughed and how it felt.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been nursing some past grudge and keeping it alive in your head, that\u2019s another form of mental clutter.<\/p>\n<h3>Culprit #4: Distractions<\/h3>\n<p>I mentioned this before in a previous post (<a href=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/3-things-you-need-to-ditch-in-your-life-right-now\">3 Things You Need to Ditch in Your Life Right Now<\/a>), but it\u2019s worth mentioning here as well. Living in a hyperconnected world is both a blessing and a curse.<\/p>\n<p>On one hand, you can <strong>instantly<\/strong> get in touch with the important people in your life and see what they\u2019re up to. But at the same time, it also opens the door to <em>unwelcome distractions<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about social media, of course. Sure, getting real-time updates about your friend\u2019s awesome Mexico getaway or your grandma\u2019s freshly baked pumpkin pie is great.<\/p>\n<p>But the thing is, you\u2019re also exposed to a sea of endless noise. And many studies have linked social media use to <strong>depression<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Staying connected has its price \u2013 are you willing to pay for it?<\/p>\n<p>And that begs the more important question: how do you cut all this <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">invisible junk<\/span> from your life?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here are the 5 things I did to deep-six that clutter and take back the space in my head:<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Free Your Mind \u2013 Habit #1: Clean Your Room!<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re not a pack rat, but there\u2019s bound to be physical clutter in your immediate surroundings. Start with your room, then work your way around the rest of your place.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a <strong>link<\/strong> between your mental well-being and the cleanliness of your home. The bigger the mess you have, the greater effect it has on your peace of mind.<\/p>\n<p>Like it or not, it <strong>translates<\/strong> to that static you don\u2019t need in your head. Get this out of the way first, and you\u2019ll instantly start to feel better about yourself.<\/p>\n<h3>Expand Your Mental Real Estate &#8211; Tip #2: Pay Attention to Your Body<\/h3>\n<p>Again, the physical realm affects the mental one. It\u2019s easy to forget how much your state of health can <strong>influence<\/strong> your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Have one less thing to worry about. Take care of yourself and yet another chunk of that mental clutter will dissipate into thin air.<\/p>\n<p>Make an effort to eat and sleep better. Avoid the bad stuff (you know what it is) and give your body what it needs.<\/p>\n<p>Burn those calories and get your endorphins cycling in your system. If you want to calm your mind, there\u2019s no way around a clean bill of health.<\/p>\n<p>Once you take the steps to giving your body what it needs, your brain will <strong>follow<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>Kill the Noise \u2013 Technique #3: Get It All Out<\/h3>\n<p>The brain is an <strong>amazing<\/strong> piece of hardware. It seems to have an <strong>unlimited<\/strong> capacity to store every bit of information you\u2019ll come across in your life.<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t upload some of that data to an \u2018external backup\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>A good way to declutter your mind is by using an old-fashioned notebook. In a technologically advanced time like this, we\u2019ve forgotten that writing down stuff is <em>still effective<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Got things to do this week? Have thoughts you\u2019d like to get off your chest?<\/p>\n<p>A million dollar idea that just popped in your head while taking a shower perhaps?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Jot it down.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Make a to-do list, start a journal and keep track of the things taking up space in your head.<\/p>\n<p>All that stuff that\u2019s bothering you now &#8211; or bothered you in the past &#8211; can all go in your journal.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of that last one, there\u2019s an immense benefit to <strong>letting go<\/strong> of past grievances.<\/p>\n<p>Other people might be responsible, or it could have been something <strong>YOU<\/strong> also did. People make mistakes and hurt each other. Sometimes by accident, other times on purpose.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the case, here\u2019s a good way to process those hang-ups. I\u2019ve learned to ask myself some <strong>crucial<\/strong> questions when I think about the past:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Does that event have any bearing on my PRESENT life?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Was it really an event in the first place? Or was I just caught up in my feelings at the time?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Could I have really done anything then to change the outcome? Or was it out of my hands?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Were the people involved right to say or do what they did? Or was it a lapse on their part?<\/p>\n<p>Think of this as mental waste disposal. With this method, I\u2019ve learned to sort out what\u2019s worth learning from and putting aside\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026and what I can throw out without putting any more thought into it.<\/p>\n<p>Filtering out those past events and <strong>processing them<\/strong> helped me become kinder to myself. I learned how to hold on to the teachable moments, but <strong>let go<\/strong> of the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">emotions<\/span> attached to them.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, if you\u2019re the tech-savvy, then go ahead and use an app or save your thoughts in a Word document. Whatever you do, <em>don\u2019t hold it in<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Taking this small step and making it a regular habit will have a profound effect your mental well-being.<\/p>\n<h3>Give Your Brain a Break \u2013 Secret #4: Don\u2019t Say Yes to Everything<\/h3>\n<p>Most people bite off more than they can chew when it comes to planning their week. Their calendars are usually <strong>loaded<\/strong> with appointments, commitments and a ton of other stuff they \u2018need\u2019 to do.<\/p>\n<p>But this is one area of your life that needs a second look. Go over your weekly schedule and do an <strong>audit<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have absolutely have to go to <strong>every single one<\/strong> of those events?<\/p>\n<p>Are you really obligated to attend your friend\u2019s cousin\u2019s baby shower? Will you get fired at work if you skip that after-office get together at your local watering hole?<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, you\u2019re only <strong>made to feel<\/strong> like you have to spend your valuable time on these things. But not all of those necessarily <em>add value<\/em> to your life or help you grow as a person.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re feeling pressured, or deep down you\u2019d rather do something else\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026then have the courage to <strong>turn them down<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Keep it simple, direct and polite. They might feel bad, but in the long run, they\u2019ll <strong>respect<\/strong> you for being upfront and telling them early on.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, no one can physically stop you from staying at home or spending time with other people. And this translates to <strong>MORE<\/strong> mental clutter out the window!<\/p>\n<h3>Secret to Mental Discipline &#8211; #5: Limit Social Media Use<\/h3>\n<p>You knew this was coming when I brought it up earlier. Yes, keeping in touch is a good thing, but don\u2019t let <strong>risks<\/strong> of social media outweigh its benefits.<\/p>\n<p>And that depends on whether or not it\u2019s affecting the other areas of your life (e.g. work, responsibilities, an actual social life, etc.)<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, your brain doesn\u2019t need another mug brownie recipe or an overused cat meme that\u2019s been done to death. Don\u2019t fill your mind with unnecessary clutter <strong>faster<\/strong> than you can <strong>keep up<\/strong> with.<\/p>\n<p>Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, and Twitter have their use, but <strong>NOT<\/strong> beyond a certain point. Have the discipline to rein yourself in when you\u2019ve had your fill.<\/p>\n<p>It will take some getting used to, but you\u2019ll do your mind a <strong>BIG favor<\/strong> by giving it <strong>LESS<\/strong> to think about.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s enough <strong>chaos<\/strong> in the world around you. The best thing to do is master the world <em>inside your head<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Getting rid of all that junk will streamline your thoughts and give you clarity. After all, you need to keep your head in the game if you\u2019re going to manifest success and prosperity in your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And if you want to have the best possible mindset to attract everything you want, take a look at my flagship \u2018Manifestation Miracle\u2019 program. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve got a roadmap to help you make a simple but powerful shift in your thinking that will unlock wealth, happiness and your true purpose.<\/p>\n<p>Follow this link for the full details: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/index-written.php\">Manifestation Miracle<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Love and kind wishes,<\/p>\n<p>Heather Mathews<\/p>\n<h3><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video\">Learn how to FORCE the Universe to give you everything you&#8217;ve ever wanted\u2026and MORE!<\/a><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2436 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-Video-v2.jpg\" alt=\"Manifestation Miracle Video\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-Video-v2.jpg 933w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-Video-v2-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-Video-v2-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Author of Manifestation Miracle Do you want to unlock your inner power to manifest the life you&#8217;ve been dreaming of? 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