{"id":2982,"date":"2018-06-06T22:04:34","date_gmt":"2018-06-06T22:04:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/blog\/?p=2982"},"modified":"2018-06-14T01:20:58","modified_gmt":"2018-06-14T01:20:58","slug":"how-to-be-the-best-you-can","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/how-to-be-the-best-you-can","title":{"rendered":"How To Be The Best You Can"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Author of <strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video2\">Manifestation Miracle<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><em><strong>Do you want to unlock your inner power to <strong>manifest the life<\/strong> you&#8217;ve been dreaming of? Don&#8217;t forget to check out the\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video2\"><em>Manifestation Miracle<\/em><\/a>\u00a0program&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>How To Be The Best You Can<\/h2>\n<p><em>\u201cTomorrow is promised to no one. Prioritize today accordingly.\u201d \u2015 Gina Greenlee<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In this video, &#8220;3 Things I Learned While My Plane Crashed&#8221;, Ric Elias talks about the important things in life.<\/p>\n<p>According to him, there are <strong>3 Important things in life<\/strong> that he realized when he thought he was about to die.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8_zk2DpgLCs?rel=0&amp;showinfo=0\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Below is the transcript of his talk:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Imagine a big explosion as you climb through 3,000 ft.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine a plane full of smoke.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine an engine going clack,clack,clack.<\/p>\n<p>It sounds scary.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I had a unique seat that day.<\/p>\n<p>I was sitting in 1D. I was the only one who could talk to the flight attendants. So I looked at them right away ,and they said, &#8220;No problem. We probably hit some birds.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The pilot had already turned the plane around, and we weren&#8217;t that far. You could see Manhattan.<\/p>\n<p>Two minutes later, three things happened at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>The pilot lines up the plane with the Hudson River. That&#8217;s usually not the route.<\/p>\n<p>He turns off the engines.<\/p>\n<p>Now, imagine being in a plane with no sound.<\/p>\n<p>And then he says three words.<\/p>\n<p>The most unemotional three words I&#8217;ve ever heard\u2026<\/p>\n<p>He says,&#8221;Brace for impact.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t have to talk to the flight attendant anymore. I could see in her eyes, it was terror.<\/p>\n<p>Life was over.<\/p>\n<p>Now I want to share with you three things I learned about myself that day. I learned that it all changes in an instant.<\/p>\n<p>We have this bucket list, we have these things we want to do in life, and I thought about all the people I wanted to reach out to that I didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026All the fences I wanted to mend, all the experiences I wanted to have and I never did.<\/p>\n<p>As I thought about that later on, I came up with a saying, which is, &#8220;I collect bad wines.&#8221; Because if the wine is ready and the person is there, I&#8217;m opening it.<\/p>\n<p>I no longer want to postpone anything in life.<\/p>\n<p>And that urgency, that purpose, has really changed my life.<\/p>\n<p>The second thing I learned that day \u2014 and this is as we clear the George Washington Bridge, which was by not a lot \u2014 I thought about, wow, I really feel one REAL regret.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve lived a good life.<\/p>\n<p>In my own humanity and mistakes, I&#8217;ve tried to get better at everything I tried. But in my humanity, I also allow my ego to get in.<\/p>\n<p>And I regretted the time I wasted on things that did not matter with people that matter.<\/p>\n<p>And I thought about my relationship with my wife, with my friends, with people.<\/p>\n<p>And after, as I reflected on that, I decided to eliminate negative energy from my life.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not perfect, but it&#8217;s a lot better.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve not had a fight with my wife in two years. It feels great.<\/p>\n<p>I no longer try to be right. I choose to be happy.<\/p>\n<p>The third thing I learned \u2014 and this is as your mental clock starts going,&#8221;15,14,13\u2026\u201d<br \/>\nYou can see the water coming\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m saying, \u201cPlease blow up.\u201d I don&#8217;t want this thing to break in 20 pieces like you&#8217;ve seen in those documentaries.<\/p>\n<p>And as we&#8217;re coming down, I had a sense of, wow, dying is not scary. It&#8217;s almost like we&#8217;ve been preparing for it our whole lives.<\/p>\n<p>But it was very sad.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t want to go. I love my life. And that sadness really framed in one thought, which is, I only wish for one thing. I only wish I could see my kids grow up.<\/p>\n<p>About a month later, I was at a performance by my daughter \u2014 first-grader, not much artistic talent \u2014 Yet!<\/p>\n<p>\u2026And I&#8217;m bawling, I&#8217;m crying like a little kid.<\/p>\n<p>And it made all the sense in the world to me.<\/p>\n<p>I realized at that point, by connecting those two dots, that the only thing that matters in my life is being a great dad.<\/p>\n<p>Above all, the only goal I have in life is to be a good dad.<\/p>\n<p>I was given the gift of a miracle, of not dying that day.<\/p>\n<p>I was given another gift, which was to be able to see into the future and come back and live differently.<\/p>\n<p>I challenge you guys that are flying today, imagine the same thing happens on your plane \u2014 and please don&#8217;t \u2014 but imagine, and how would you change?<\/p>\n<p>What would you get done that you&#8217;re waiting to get done because you think you&#8217;ll be here forever?<\/p>\n<p>How would you change your relationships and the negative energy in them?<\/p>\n<p>And more than anything, are you being the best parent you can?<\/p>\n<p>Thank you.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Oftentimes, we&#8217;re caught up in the drudgery of life that we <em>forget<\/em> to appreciate the people around us and take for granted the <strong>amazing life<\/strong> we have.<\/p>\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t make you a bad person &#8211; after all, you have a lot of <strong>responsibilities<\/strong> to take care of.<\/p>\n<p>However, it does help to stop from time to time and remember the things that truly matter to you.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let the important relationships in your life take a backseat&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;remember the incredible blessings you have (and share it with others)&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and don&#8217;t put off those things you said you&#8217;d do.<\/p>\n<p>Life is more than the money we have to make, paying taxes or climbing the career ladder. Cultivate the habit of appreciating the essential things around you.<\/p>\n<p>I know how hard it is to have a balanced life. We all want a rewarding career, fantastic relationships, and financial security.<\/p>\n<p>And as we pursue these things, we can get off-track and lose our way. It might even seem next to impossible to achieve this balance.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what I used to think until I discovered this <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">life-changing secret<\/span>. After I made a subtle yet ultimately <strong>powerful<\/strong> change in my life, nothing was the same again.<\/p>\n<p>And I mean that in a <strong>GOOD<\/strong> way &#8211; watch the video below to learn more:<\/p>\n<h3><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video\">Click HERE to learn how to FORCE the Universe to give you everything you&#8217;ve ever wanted\u2026and MORE!<\/a><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2436 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-Video-v2.jpg\" alt=\"Manifestation Miracle Video\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-Video-v2.jpg 933w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-Video-v2-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-Video-v2-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Author of Manifestation Miracle Do you want to unlock your inner power to manifest the life you&#8217;ve been dreaming of? 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