{"id":4503,"date":"2019-08-21T01:09:08","date_gmt":"2019-08-21T01:09:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/blog\/?p=4503"},"modified":"2019-10-22T03:24:14","modified_gmt":"2019-10-22T03:24:14","slug":"5-signs-hes-the-right-man-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/5-signs-hes-the-right-man-for-you","title":{"rendered":"5 Signs He&#8217;s The Right Man For You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>By Slade Shaw<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\">Author of Why Men Pull Away<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>&#8220;You don&#8217;t love someone because of their looks or their clothes or their car. You love them because they sing a song only your heart can understand.&#8221; &#8211; L.J. Smith<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Tessa, a tech support specialist from Melbourne in her late twenties, has an active social life.<\/p>\n<p>She often goes to sci-fi conventions, regularly holds video game marathons at her place and meets a lot of people who share the same interests &#8211; including guys.<\/p>\n<p>As it was, Tessa had been single for some time and was hoping to find a partner who could complement her personality. And even though she had a lot in common with the guys in her social circles, she couldn&#8217;t quite hit it off romantically with any of them.<\/p>\n<p>So it was a\u00a0<b>complete surprise<\/b>\u00a0when Ben came along and swept Tessa off her feet.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He&#8217;s super active in the local sports scene and is very athletic, so he wasn&#8217;t my type at all&#8230;or so I thought,&#8221; Tessa shared with a girlish smile.<\/p>\n<p>They met by chance at a charity auction set up by mutual friends, and they clicked the moment they met.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I couldn&#8217;t put my finger on it at first, but I knew right away he was different, and in a good way,&#8221; she gushed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He wasn&#8217;t like any other guy I&#8217;ve met, and I don&#8217;t think it had anything to do with our interests. Ben has this energy and warmth about him that I absolutely LOVE.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><b>How to spot The One<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Their worlds were pretty far removed from each other, but that didn&#8217;t stop Tessa from falling hard for Ben.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s surprising how couples who seem like polar opposites at first turn out to be a perfect fit.<\/p>\n<p>And most of the time, it can be a tricky business to figure out if a certain guy is a good match for you.<\/p>\n<p>Considering his unique personality and quirks &#8211; along with the whole deal about mixed signals &#8211; it&#8217;s hard to sift through all of that and\u00a0<b>see the signs<\/b>\u00a0he&#8217;s MEANT for you.<\/p>\n<p>So how can you tell he&#8217;s your Mr. Right&#8230;or if you should keep looking?<\/p>\n<p>Read on to find out&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><b>Click here to discover the sure-fire way to make him stay&#8230;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sign #1: He&#8217;s got your back<\/p>\n<p>One thing I&#8217;ve noticed in a lot of couples who&#8217;ve been together for years is how supportive they are of each other.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s always a good sign when a guy endlessly encourages his partner to pursue her interests and passions &#8211; no matter how &#8220;out there&#8221; they might seem.<\/p>\n<p>If you see that your guy is always trying to push you forward in a HEALTHY direction &#8211; especially when you doubt yourself &#8211; that&#8217;s a clear indication he&#8217;s a good match for you.<\/p>\n<p>When looking for a partner, it&#8217;s important to find someone who wants to see you GROW and evolve. A guy who acts as a positive force in your life is worth keeping around.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sign #2: He&#8217;s part of your world<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Like Tessa learned, hitting it off doesn&#8217;t have much to do with how similar your personalities or interests are.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, having stuff in common makes it easier to break the ice, but in the long run it&#8217;s not going to keep the relationship going.<\/p>\n<p>The more important factor is how willing he is to be part of your life\u00a0<b>anyway<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>Tessa recalled fondly: &#8220;Ben didn&#8217;t know the first thing about Star Wars, or sci-fi movies in general, but he went with me to the midnight screening of The Force Awakens with my geek friends&#8230;and we even wore matching Jedi outfits! I didn&#8217;t ask Ben to do that, but he suggested the idea and I loved him for that&#8230;&#8221; If he&#8217;s into you, he&#8217;ll care about the things you do. He&#8217;ll spend his time on them because he knows those things make you,\u00a0<b>YOU<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s exactly what he wants to be part of &#8211; your fun and happening life.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sign#3: You share a special bond<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You know how some couples almost seem to know what the other is thinking without saying a word?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s amazing &#8211; and a little eerie &#8211; to see them connect at this level that no one else can.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not ESP or some other supernatural phenomenon &#8211; some people are empathic this way and have a kind of radar for it.<\/p>\n<p>Your guy doesn&#8217;t have to be psychic or have a sixth sense, nor should you expect him to be.<\/p>\n<p>But if he has the awareness to at least ask you if you&#8217;re ok, then that&#8217;s the sign of a concerned &#8211; and CONNECTED &#8211; partner.<\/p>\n<p>This is the kind of man who can sense that&#8217;s there&#8217;s something amiss in your inner world and respond to it.<\/p>\n<p>When he picks up on your signals, he won&#8217;t just ask if you&#8217;re doing alright&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;he&#8217;ll also want to help you get out of your funk, get the proverbial fly out of your soup&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and basically do anything to make you right as rain\u00a0<b>again<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>And the fact that he cares about what you&#8217;re feeling or thinking speaks volumes of the kind of guy he is.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sign #4: He&#8217;s making the EFFORT<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If a guy&#8217;s important to you, he&#8217;ll always be working overtime to make sure you&#8217;re happy.<\/p>\n<p>Men are big on making their partner feel provided for and protected, so he&#8217;s going to do this in every way he can.<\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s not\u00a0<b>making plans<\/b>\u00a0with you and create amazing, shared experiences together&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;he&#8217;ll try to help you with something that&#8217;s\u00a0<b>bugging you<\/b>, like your fixing your smartphone or running some errand you hate.<\/p>\n<p>A guy worth keeping is one who&#8217;ll do anything to take the load off your mind and make your life easier.<\/p>\n<p>Another thing you might notice is how a guy will do things with you on a regular basis.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll take you out for morning coffee, walk your dog with you every Saturday or schedule a monthly expedition at his favorite camping spot.<\/p>\n<p>If he does this, take note, because a man doesn&#8217;t change his schedule that easily.<\/p>\n<p>Only a guy who&#8217;s in &#8220;single&#8221; mode will insist on keeping his appointments as they are.<\/p>\n<p>A guy IN LOVE, on the other hand, will suddenly have all the reasons in the world to make his schedule more flexible than a contortionist at the circus.<\/p>\n<p><b>More than that, he wants to create a shared life with you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So it&#8217;s not just what he does &#8211; it&#8217;s also the\u00a0<b>amount of time<\/b>\u00a0he gives up and\u00a0<b>trouble<\/b>\u00a0he goes through in the name of your happiness.<\/p>\n<p>This is one of the most precious gifts he could give anyone.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><b>Click here to discover the sure-fire way to make him stay&#8230;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Sign #5: He makes everything AWESOME<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Even the most boring, everyday things become amazing when you&#8217;re with him.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you need to run to the store to get pasta noodles or pick up a package at the post office &#8211; but you wouldn&#8217;t miss it for the world if he offers to\u00a0<b>go with you<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re so attracted to each other that everything else seems to fade into the background when you&#8217;re together.<\/p>\n<p>He wants to know every little you were up to today, and likewise for you.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what being soulmates is all about &#8211; he turns the mundane into the magical by simply being there.<\/p>\n<p>And when you&#8217;re having the worst of days, you\u00a0<b>STILL<\/b>\u00a0want him around because you know he&#8217;s such a positive presence in your life.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s there to hear you rant about the crazy drama you had with a co-worker, or some other struggle you&#8217;re going through.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is, he&#8217;s all ears and isn&#8217;t itching to jump in with a solution to your problems.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll sit back, listen quietly and only speak\u00a0<b>after<\/b>\u00a0you&#8217;re done talking.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll only offer his opinion when you\u00a0<b>ask for it<\/b>\u00a0and always make you feel like he&#8217;s hearing you out.<\/p>\n<p>All of these add up to the unmistakable fact that you&#8217;ve found\u00a0<b>The One<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>Finding this kind of connection with a man is RARE, so you should pay attention when he&#8217;s showing you the right signs.<\/p>\n<p>More importantly, you need to make sure that spark keeps burning bright and strong with your Mr. Right.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen a lot of couples who were perfect for each other, but\u00a0<b>drift apart<\/b>\u00a0for one reason or another.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he&#8217;s\u00a0<b>not as affectionate<\/b>\u00a0as he was before&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;or the passion has faded&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;or he&#8217;s simply going through the motions.<\/p>\n<p>Worse, it might even seem that he&#8217;s\u00a0<b>pulling away<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>If you have a terrible feeling in the pit if your stomach that you can&#8217;t ignore any longer, then it&#8217;s time to know the REAL reasons\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><u>Why Men Pull Away<\/u><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve put together a video that explains exactly how to recapture your man&#8217;s heart before it&#8217;s TOO LATE:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><b>Watch my free presentation NOW and learn exactly what pushes men to leave&#8230;and how to NEVER feel abandoned or rejected &#8211; CLICK HERE&#8230;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-4506 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/manifestationmiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB.jpg 933w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB-768x346.jpg 768w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB-640x288.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Slade Shaw Author of Why Men Pull Away &#8220;You don&#8217;t love someone because of their looks or their clothes or their car. 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