{"id":4508,"date":"2019-08-30T01:09:23","date_gmt":"2019-08-30T01:09:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/blog\/?p=4508"},"modified":"2019-10-22T03:23:55","modified_gmt":"2019-10-22T03:23:55","slug":"how-to-make-a-man-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-10-tips-for-making-men-desire-you-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/how-to-make-a-man-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-10-tips-for-making-men-desire-you-more","title":{"rendered":"How To Make A Man Fall Madly In Love With You &#8211; 10 Tips For Making Men Desire You More"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>By Slade Shaw<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\">Author of Why Men Pull Away<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>&#8220;Be the flame, not the moth.&#8221; &#8211; Giacomo Casanova<\/i><\/p>\n<p>We all want to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a human need &#8211; we yearn for that magical connection with The One Person meant for each of us.<\/p>\n<p>You might be on the lookout for that guy right now, just as he&#8217;s searching for someone like you.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you&#8217;re already in a relationship and you want to keep the flames of passion burning ferociously bright with your man.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you&#8217;d do well to learn the secrets to turning him on like crazy.<\/p>\n<p>If you can make him feel things he&#8217;s never felt with any other woman before, then he&#8217;s as good as YOURS.<\/p>\n<p><b>Meet Tina<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She was like most women who stumbled in the dark when it came to men and dating.<\/p>\n<p>Tina, a real estate agent from Surrey, had trouble keeping a guy around.<\/p>\n<p>Either he &#8220;needed space&#8221;, wasn&#8217;t &#8220;ready commit to something long-term&#8221; or had some equally lame excuse available.<\/p>\n<p>So she jumped from one relationship to the next and fell into the same patterns over and over.<\/p>\n<p>After a few weeks of getting hot and heavy, the guy was soon out the door&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and into another woman&#8217;s arms.<\/p>\n<p>Her latest one was a colleague named Jeff &#8211; and like the others, things crashed and burned before it could even get off the ground.<\/p>\n<p>They had a few dates and seemed to have fun (especially in bed!), but it soon fizzled out like the others.<\/p>\n<p>Jeff suddenly became unavailable, dodged Tina&#8217;s calls and messages&#8230;until he was out of the picture just like that.<\/p>\n<p>After her last disappointment, Tina started to get desperate. She began to think there was something seriously wrong with her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My last REAL relationship was almost a decade ago, and I&#8217;ve gotten nothing but duds ever since. Maybe I pissed off the dating gods or something to deserve my rotten luck with men!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>However, Tina is anything but an isolated case. I&#8217;ve met &#8211; and helped &#8211; lots of women in the same boat as her.<\/p>\n<p>And today, I&#8217;m going to let you in on the\u00a0<b>10 Incredibly Effective Ways to Capture Your Guy&#8217;s Heart Forever<\/b>:<\/p>\n<p><b>#1: Please his eyes<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When I tell you that you need to be physically attractive to capture his interest, that doesn&#8217;t means guys are shallow.<\/p>\n<p>This is what I call &#8220;getting your foot in the door.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sure, women might not prioritize looks as much as guys do.<\/p>\n<p>But you can&#8217;t deny that a man ALSO needs to be visually appealing on some level before feeling attracted to him.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s not right or wrong &#8211; it&#8217;s simply biology in action.<\/p>\n<p>To flip those hardwired switches in him, you&#8217;ll need to put in the work.<\/p>\n<p>Take note that has nothing to do with being &#8220;perfect&#8221;, because that&#8217;s a relative concept. Every guy has a &#8220;type&#8221; and there&#8217;s no ONE kind of woman that ALL men are into.<\/p>\n<p>That means you WILL click with someone, one way or another.<\/p>\n<p>All you need to do is take care of yourself, which is what you should be doing anyway regardless.<\/p>\n<p>I could write a whole book about looking and feeling your best, but here&#8217;s a quick checklist to go over for now:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>First things first<\/b>: paying attention to hygiene is non-negotiable, and so is staying fit and active. Grooming is a must, so don&#8217;t neglect the basic things either. Guys need to know you care about this stuff before seeing you as a potential partner.<\/li>\n<li><b>Flaunt your feminine side<\/b>: experiment with different scents, keep your skin smooth and soft with lotions and use makeup when necessary (tip: less is more!).<\/li>\n<li><b>Have an impeccable sense of style<\/b>: The right packaging sends the right signals to his caveman brain, so keep your clothes neat and pressed. Also, choose soft fabrics that accentuate your curves &#8211; they have a soothing appeal that&#8217;ll drive him crazy with desire!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>#2: Create killer chemistry<\/b><\/p>\n<p>To establish a strong connection with a guy (or strengthen it with a long-term partner), he needs to feel that he has a lot of common ground with you.<\/p>\n<p>Does your personality and attitude give him the impression that he can open himself up to you?<\/p>\n<p>And he can have conversations with you that seem to go on forever (but don&#8217;t feel that way)?<\/p>\n<p>Does he feel like you &#8220;get&#8221; him on a level that&#8217;s deeper than anyone else he&#8217;s met?<\/p>\n<p>Does your sense of humor jive with his, and do you laugh at the same dumb jokes?<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a burning curiosity for each other? Does he want to pick your brain and know what makes you tick &#8211; and likewise for you?<\/p>\n<p>If your personality and attitude can create that type of climate in the relationship, then you&#8217;re doing it right.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><b>Discover Why Men Pull Away &#8211; and make sure he&#8217;ll NEVER leave you&#8230;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>#3: Get him to trust you<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A lot of women think that getting emotionally close with a guy is as easy as sleeping with him. But jumping into bed isn&#8217;t going to do the trick.<\/p>\n<p>If he wasn&#8217;t sure about how he felt for you BEFORE doing the deed&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;he&#8217;ll feel all the more uncertain the morning after.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to create an unshakable bond with your man, the first step is\u00a0<b>ACCEPTING<\/b>\u00a0him.<\/p>\n<p>This is HUGE on a guy&#8217;s list &#8211; it might even be higher than sex, if not just as important.<\/p>\n<p>A man wants to feel that their partner accepts them as who he is &#8211; NOT what she wants him to be.<\/p>\n<p>Women don&#8217;t realize they do this in small ways, like giving him the raised eyebrow when it comes to the way he dresses.<\/p>\n<p>A few helpful suggestions are fine, but don&#8217;t go nuts and turn him into your personal makeover guinea pig.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes for the stuff he&#8217;s into or the people he hangs out with. If it&#8217;s not getting in the way of your relationship, it&#8217;s not worth butting heads with him over it.<\/p>\n<p><b>#4: Be his wing(wo)man<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you want him to see you as a partner and not just a one-time fling, you need to\u00a0<b>live up<\/b>\u00a0to the title.<\/p>\n<p>And to do that, he&#8217;ll need your SUPPORT.<\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s going through a hellish time in his career or has stuff of his own to sort out, he&#8217;ll need to know you&#8217;ve got his back.<\/p>\n<p>Men tend to withdraw a bit emotionally when they&#8217;re fighting some battle in their life, so don&#8217;t take it personally.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s just going into a one-track-mind mode so he can focus his energy on whatever he needs to deal with at the moment.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, you can quietly assure him that you&#8217;ll be there for him. He&#8217;ll come back around after he wrestles those pesky problems into submission.<\/p>\n<p><b>#5: Pull back<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When a guy&#8217;s crazy about you, the best thing to do is make yourself scarce &#8211; but just a little bit.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not telling you to play the hard-to-get game where you&#8217;re blowing him off on purpose just to see him squirm.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s manipulation &#8211; and let me tell you, guys are NOT thrilled by that at all.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m just asking you not to &#8220;spoil&#8221; him too much and overindulge in the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, it could throw off the balance in both your lives.<\/p>\n<p>So where do you draw the line when it comes to pulling back?<\/p>\n<p>An easy way to do this is by asking yourself, &#8220;Am I sacrificing my own growth, well-being or sense of individuality by hanging out too much with him?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If your other priorities are out of whack &#8211; like your career, health or social life &#8211; then it&#8217;s time to rein yourself in a bit.<\/p>\n<p>Let him miss you a little and get busy being the AWESOME woman that you are.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;d rather have someone who isn&#8217;t available at his beck and call 24\/7&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;as opposed to a clingy, lovesick puppy who lives and breathes for his approval.<\/p>\n<p><b>#6: Inspire him to action<\/b><\/p>\n<p>One thing that turns on a guy is the\u00a0<b>feeling<\/b>\u00a0of being NEEDED.<\/p>\n<p>You might be thinking, &#8220;What?? Didn&#8217;t you just tell me to be a strong, independent woman who doesn&#8217;t need a guy to be happy?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Well yes, but the operative word here is &#8220;feeling&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Any guy worth your time knows darn well that you don&#8217;t actually NEED him to live a full life.<\/p>\n<p>He just wants the privilege of\u00a0<b>being part<\/b>\u00a0of it anyway.<\/p>\n<p>And if you let him play the game where he gets to indulge his more brutish, masculine side, he&#8217;ll love you for it.<\/p>\n<p>Ask him to help you out with &#8220;guy stuff&#8221;, like moving some heavy stuff around, fixing something in the house, setting up your new computer or killing that bug that flew in your bathroom.<\/p>\n<p>Or you could ask him for his expertise on something, like which smart TV has true 1080p resolution or how to invest in Bitcoin&#8230;you get the idea.<\/p>\n<p>Men absolutely love knowing they can do this type of thing for their partner because that&#8217;s their &#8220;provider\/protector instinct&#8221; kicking in.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><b>Discover Why Men Pull Away &#8211; and make sure he&#8217;ll NEVER leave you&#8230;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>#7: Let him do his thing<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The couples who&#8217;ve been together the longest are those who understand that they\u00a0<b>can&#8217;t be together<\/b>\u00a0every second of the day.<\/p>\n<p>This goes beyond what I said earlier about pulling back a little.<\/p>\n<p>From time to time, he&#8217;s going to want to go off and express himself&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and it won&#8217;t involve you.<\/p>\n<p>Women who are, well, less mature, will have a hard time accepting this fact about men.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s exactly what you need to respect, which is his need for individuality and independence.<\/p>\n<p>This factor alone can be a dealbreaker for most guys because they&#8217;re secretly afraid they&#8217;ll have to give those up once he commits to a woman.<\/p>\n<p>So alleviate those fears and let him have his friends, hobbies and other side projects he&#8217;s working on.<\/p>\n<p><b>#8: Take a chill pill<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Another thing that guys are worried about is that their partner&#8217;s going to freak out when he cracks the occasional inappropriate joke or takes an off-day playing Grand Theft Auto on his PS4.<\/p>\n<p>Essentially, guys are looking for that girl who won&#8217;t suck all the fun out of the relationship with her drama.<\/p>\n<p>Sorry if that sounds harsh, but that&#8217;s what guys are thinking &#8211; they just don&#8217;t have the nerve to tell you.<\/p>\n<p>You can do this by keeping it cool when something unexpected happens, like canceled dinner plans on account of an emergency.<\/p>\n<p>Or it could also mean not having unspoken, arbitrary rules in the relationship that force him to walk on eggshells around you.<\/p>\n<p>You know, like not flipping out when he likes a female friend&#8217;s Facebook post or Instragram selfie &#8211; or on a bigger note, acknowledging the existence of other women in his life.<\/p>\n<p>If you can pick your battles and let the inconsequential stuff slide, he&#8217;ll be all the happier for it.<\/p>\n<p><b>#9: Don&#8217;t MAKE him fall in love with you<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This may come as a surprise to a lot of women, but you can&#8217;t actually tell a guy what to think or feel&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;especially when it comes to deciding whether to\u00a0<b>commit<\/b>\u00a0to someone or not.<\/p>\n<p>Men won&#8217;t be MORE compelled to stick around if he feels FORCED into it.<\/p>\n<p>Pressure is never attractive. He needs to have the freedom to CHOOSE instead of feeling like he owes it to you.<\/p>\n<p>This is critical in the beginning when he&#8217;s still feeling things out. Try to avoid using labels like &#8220;exclusive&#8221;, &#8220;girlfriend&#8221; or &#8220;committed&#8221; until you&#8217;ve mutually confirmed it.<\/p>\n<p>And more importantly, you shouldn&#8217;t punish him in some way if he&#8217;s not as &#8220;on-board&#8221; as you are.<\/p>\n<p>Part of being in a relationship is stepping aside and letting it happen organically.<\/p>\n<p>If you try to create that closeness by sleeping with him or give him an ultimatum, he&#8217;ll eventually bail out on you since it wasn&#8217;t his real decision anyway.<\/p>\n<p><b>#10: Amazing Sex (need I say more?)<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You didn&#8217;t think we&#8217;d skip this one, did you?<\/p>\n<p>Assuming that you&#8217;ve bonded with him enough and the connection is there, the sexual component of your relationship is VITAL.<\/p>\n<p>Without it, you might as well be platonic friends. With that, here are some essential tips you need to know:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Make him feel like a MAN<\/b>&#8230;or THE Man, to be exact. Again, this is his caveman side we&#8217;re talking about. Guys want nothing more than to please their partner &#8211; especially when it comes to that &#8211; which brings us to the next tip&#8230;<\/li>\n<li><b>If he&#8217;s doing it right, TELL him<\/b>. If your guy&#8217;s lighting you up like a Christmas tree, give him the signals. Your verbal and non-verbal cues will tell him you&#8217;re on bliss island. You could even slip a little R-rated language while you&#8217;re in throes of passion if you&#8217;re so inclined&#8230;<\/li>\n<li><b>Communication is KEY<\/b>. We&#8217;re approaching clich\u00e9d territory here, but it&#8217;s crucial nonetheless. Maybe you&#8217;ve hit a roadblock in your sex life for whatever reason and it&#8217;s keeping you from giving 100% of yourself to him. If that&#8217;s the case, he deserves to know, but try to skip the harsh criticism and accusations. Trust me, if there&#8217;s anything he can do to help things get back on track, he&#8217;ll be more than willing.<\/li>\n<li><b>Use the power of the &#8220;slow burn&#8221;<\/b>. Men love being teased as long as they know it&#8217;ll lead up to the main event. Make a game out of it and don&#8217;t go for the obvious erogenous zones, like down south. Bring things to a simmering boil by touching him elsewhere that&#8217;s just as powerful and erotic. Or send him a quick text about what you&#8217;re going to do to him later on. Anything you that builds up the anticipation will keep him eager and willing to please you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Whether you&#8217;ve been together for three months or three decades, there&#8217;s always plenty you can do to make him crave you like a cool drink on a hot summer day. With the right habits, you can easily cultivate the right atmosphere in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>But there are women out there whose guy is slipping away FAST &#8211; and they need to stop him from walking out the door, pronto.<\/p>\n<p>In cases like that, you&#8217;ll need to bring out the big guns.<\/p>\n<p>You see, I&#8217;ve developed a system to keep a man not only interested and attracted to you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;but make him feel like living without you is\u00a0<b>NOT<\/b>\u00a0an option.<\/p>\n<p>After using my powerful techniques on him, he won&#8217;t see any other women aside from you.<\/p>\n<p>(And while he&#8217;s at it, he&#8217;ll stop looking at their Facebook and Instagram feeds without you asking him &#8211; just saying&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>In other words, I can teach you how to make him OBSESSED with you so the thought of leaving won&#8217;t ever cross his mind.<\/p>\n<p>But let me warn you that this is powerful stuff and you should only use it on the right guy.<\/p>\n<p>You need to be sure that you NEVER want him to leave you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><b>If you&#8217;re ready to take the plunge and learn why men pull away &#8211; Click here to watch my free video presentation&#8230;<\/b><\/a><b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/menpullaway\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-4506 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/manifestationmiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB.jpg 933w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB-768x346.jpg 768w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/MYS-MenPullB-640x288.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Slade Shaw Author of Why Men Pull Away &#8220;Be the flame, not the moth.&#8221; &#8211; Giacomo Casanova We all want to be loved. It&#8217;s a human need &#8211; we yearn for that magical connection with The One Person meant for each of us. 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