{"id":732,"date":"2016-01-19T05:03:41","date_gmt":"2016-01-19T05:03:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/blog\/?p=732"},"modified":"2018-06-16T05:30:19","modified_gmt":"2018-06-16T05:30:19","slug":"3-things-sadness-teaches-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/3-things-sadness-teaches-you","title":{"rendered":"3 Things Sadness Teaches You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Author of <strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video2\">Manifestation Miracle<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><em><strong>Do you want to unlock your inner power to <strong>manifest the life<\/strong> you&#8217;ve been dreaming of? Don&#8217;t forget to check out the\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/go\/video2\"><em>Manifestation Miracle<\/em><\/a>\u00a0program&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>3 Things Sadness Teaches You<\/h2>\n<h1>Everybody experiences bouts of sadness. Sometimes it has to do with family, other times friends, mostly it involves relationships.<\/h1>\n<p>There are times when circumstances makes us feel unhappy, like an unfulfilling job, amounting debts, and what-have-yous.<\/p>\n<p>But the fact remains the same, sadness affects all of us.<\/p>\n<p>Whether or not we make it a permanent fixture in our lives is <strong>a matter of choice<\/strong>, but whether or not it comes around is not.<\/p>\n<p>Not all of us are able to handle this <strong>emotion<\/strong> well. Some resort to drinking, partying, hanging out with friends, while some prefer to keep to themselves and experience it all by themselves.<\/p>\n<p>In any case, there\u2019s always a <strong>lesson<\/strong> to be learned.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some of the brutal lessons that show themselves amidst our struggle:<\/p>\n<h3>The world doesn\u2019t stop, it doesn\u2019t change<\/h3>\n<p>Just because it kicked you, maybe even repeatedly, and you\u2019re at your lowest, doesn\u2019t mean that it will stop.<\/p>\n<p>Think of the world as a big conveyor belt that brings you what it\u2019s supposed to, <strong>nonstop<\/strong>, regardless of how you\u2019re getting the items off on your end.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you find yourself <strong>stuck<\/strong> handling the last baggage, there\u2019s always another one coming. You don\u2019t know what\u2019s in it, but it\u2019s coming.<\/p>\n<p>The world doesn\u2019t owe you kindness just because it has shown you the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t <strong>take turns<\/strong> the way you think it should. It could be a series of letdowns before it lets up and shows you the light.<\/p>\n<p>Though the world doesn\u2019t change, make sure that you do.<\/p>\n<p>Arm yourself with the <strong>courage<\/strong> to change the way you see things. Be brave enough to toughen your skin, but not your heart.<\/p>\n<h3>You are only as strong as you think<\/h3>\n<p>If you think you\u2019re weak, that you\u2019re stuck with no options, that you can\u2019t possibly continue on, then you\u2019re probably right.<\/p>\n<p>Now what?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not made weak by <strong>feeling<\/strong> the emotion, you\u2019re made weak by letting it consume you.<\/p>\n<p>The thing with sadness is that it drains you of <strong>hope<\/strong>, little by little or all at once. It doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n<p>At some point, you need to plug that drain and start <strong>filling<\/strong> your tank again with the stuff you need to get back up.<\/p>\n<p>If you condition yourself to think that there\u2019s no way it\u2019s going to be fixed, then your thoughts will conform to that idea.<\/p>\n<p>But if you think you\u2019re made of stronger stuff, which <strong>you are<\/strong>, then your brain will start working double time to make you feel that strength.<\/p>\n<h3>You always have a choice<\/h3>\n<p>In <strong>every<\/strong> situation, you have a choice.<\/p>\n<p>Sadness backs you into a corner and turns the light off. For a while, it will make you feel immobile, paralyzed.<\/p>\n<p>But you have the <strong>power<\/strong> to choose until when it will affect you, you have the power to stand up, to turn the light back on, and to take a step.<\/p>\n<p>You have a <strong>choice<\/strong> to give up or to keep fighting. Sometimes you might not like the options, but you\u2019re still given choices.<\/p>\n<p>You just need to choose a plan. Choose a plan that works for YOU. Not for anybody else.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that the choices you make will affect your life primarily. So you need to be happy or at least determined in your choice.<\/p>\n<h3>Take this 60 second Quiz&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>Are you on the path you should be on towards a life of great wealth, love, health and more?<\/p>\n<p>Or is something getting in your way?<\/p>\n<p>Take this incredibly revealing 60 second quiz to find out\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/quiz\">60 Second Abundance Quiz\u00a0<\/a><\/h3>\n<h3>(are you on the path to your dream life?)<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/quiz\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1877\" src=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-ThoughtQuizB.jpg\" alt=\"Abundance Quiz\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-ThoughtQuizB.jpg 933w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-ThoughtQuizB-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MM-ThoughtQuizB-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After taking the quiz, you\u2019ll receive a free report revealing your personalised path to ultimate life success!<\/p>\n<p>Enjoy and have a great day.<\/p>\n<p>Kind regards,<\/p>\n<p>Heather<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Author of Manifestation Miracle Do you want to unlock your inner power to manifest the life you&#8217;ve been dreaming of? 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