{"id":801,"date":"2016-02-03T03:32:19","date_gmt":"2016-02-03T03:32:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.destinymiracle.com\/blog\/?p=801"},"modified":"2018-06-16T05:56:39","modified_gmt":"2018-06-16T05:56:39","slug":"3-reasons-why-you-should-set-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/destinymiracle.com\/blog\/3-reasons-why-you-should-set-boundaries","title":{"rendered":"3 Reasons Why You Should Set Boundaries"},"content":{"rendered":"

Author of Manifestation Miracle<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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3 Reasons Why You Should Set Boundaries<\/h2>\n

While some people might think it\u2019s rude or snobbish to set boundaries, it\u2019s actually not, if you understand it.<\/p>\n

Life can be messy, hectic, and exciting.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s filled with a lot of people, people who want something from you, people who want to spend time with you, people who need you, people you need something from, and the list goes on.<\/p>\n

In between all these people are events, events you need to attend, events you want to attend, and events that are happening around you.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the type of person who says yes <\/strong>to everything and to everyone, while it may seem like you\u2019re being accommodating and pleasing, pretty soon you\u2019ll find yourself exhausted and cranky.<\/h1>\n

Still not convinced you need boundaries?<\/p>\n

Here are some reasons why you really should:<\/p>\n

Respect<\/strong><\/h3>\n

A lot of people complain that they are not being treated with the respect they deserve, most notable in the work place. Their positions are not acknowledged and taken seriously by their peers and subordinates.<\/p>\n

You want to know why that might be the case? Because you make yourself too flexible.<\/p>\n

If people now that they can bend you towards their will, even the nicest ones can take advantage of this.<\/p>\n

If you want your deadlines taken seriously, your limitations to be considered, your voice to be heard, you need to make yourself a force to be reckoned with.<\/p>\n

You need to have authority over yourself so that you can enforce the same authority with others.<\/p>\n

Preservation<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Learning to say \u2018no\u2019 is a skill that most adults eventually learn. But if you can learn it faster and understand the benefits that it can bring to your life earlier, it\u2019s all the better.<\/p>\n

Why say \u2018no\u2019?<\/p>\n

Because you can.<\/p>\n

Yes, that\u2019s right, you can. And you should.<\/p>\n

People pleasing can only go so far.<\/p>\n

In the end, you can\u2019t please everyone, even the ones you do wish you had done it in a more specific manner, and most people you can\u2019t please anyway.<\/p>\n

Saying \u2018at least you tried\u2019 doesn\u2019t have that much bearing in the grand scheme of things.<\/p>\n

People have their own minds. They will think what they want to think, regardless of what you try to prove to them.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re just doing what you\u2019re doing for others all the time, what gets left behind for you?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t exert all your effort towards other people. You need to exert effort into helping yourself.<\/p>\n

More<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Less clutter, less worry, more life.<\/p>\n

Realizing you have the power to refuse things, and people, that don\u2019t add anything but anxiety and stress in your life is one of the greatest lessons you can teach yourself.<\/p>\n

In order to have more space in your life for what really matters to you, you need to unclog it with the things that other people put in there that you can\u2019t use.<\/p>\n

Sure, it\u2019s hard to say no to people, especially those close to you. But you need to make them see that it\u2019s your life, and you want to live it a certain way.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s different from an idea in their heads, then sorry, not sorry.<\/p>\n

Respect yourself, dictate the value of your life, and hopefully other people will follow suit.<\/p>\n

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Kind regards,<\/p>\n

Heather<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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