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4 Ways To Fight Back When Life Knocks You Down
“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” ― Viktor E. Frankl
Life isn’t always fair.
Sometimes, you might feel like you have more than your fair share of disasters and not enough good luck.
It’s normal to see things this way, especially when you’re going through tough times. It feels like the good times hardly make up for the seemingly endless bad situations you run into.
Bad circumstances pile up on top of each other, and the crushing weight of it all can seem too much.
It happens to the best of us, and I know what it’s like to hit rock bottom.
There was a time when I thought I had everything I ever wanted…
…until I actually got it.
As far as my family and friends were concerned, my business was doing well and I was in a great relationship.
For all intents and purposes, I had all the appearances of a successful woman who was happy with her life.
But under the sugar-coated surface, I was living in a prison of my own making.
No one could see or understand the exhaustion I felt to my very core. While others were jealous of my “fabulous” life, I tormented myself with thoughts like:
“Is this all there is to it?”
“Looks like I have everything I want…what now?”
“I’m so tired…when I can stop running on this hamster wheel?”
It came to a point when I no longer enjoyed the life I worked so hard for.
My relationship with my partner barely hung on a thread, and I couldn’t summon the energy to keep up the facade of my tortured existence.
Simply put, life was kicking my butt, and I felt powerless to change my predicament.
But after some soul-searching and a ton of research, I found a way to climb out of my hole and see the light again.
At some point, life knocks the wind out of everyone – no exceptions.
To help you deal with that, here are 4 Ways to Get back on Your Feet and Come Out on Top:
#1: Keep Your Dreams Alive
No dream is too small. If it’s important to you, that’s all that matters.
If your dreams give you the drive to get up in the morning and seize the day; don’t let that go.
Your hopes for future are a powerful gift that shapes you as a person. It influences your thoughts and your outlook on life.
It’s the lens through which you perceive the world around you, including people and situations – be it good or bad.
Let your dreams inspire you to be a better person. They are a reminder that you are capable of so much.
Never think for one second that you’re not worthy of the abundance, joy and prosperity that the Universe has to offer.
There’s plenty to go around for everyone, and you deserve your piece of that great pie as well.
You deserve to have all those wonderful things you dream of, so focus all of your efforts into making it a reality.
Don’t tell others that your goals are “too out there” or “unrealistic”. You don’t need their permission or approval to chase after your dreams.
#2: Embrace Your Fear
Fear is a great instinct that can serve you well. On a primal level, you’re hardwired to avoid things that could hurt you or put you in danger.
As useful as this feeling is, you cannot let fear rule your life or decisions.
It’s there for a reason, but it shouldn’t hold you back from growing as a person.
Don’t allow fear to make excuses for you and stop trying.
You might have been badly burned by a past experience, and you’re afraid of going through that pain again.
When this feeling comes up, acknowledge it and let it pass through you.
It’s ok to have those feelings. Just keep moving forward in spite of it.
Remember that most of the time, your brain is just projecting the worst-case scenario that isn’t necessarily true.
So go ahead and embrace the fear and let those what-ifs pass through your system. It doesn’t serve you to dwell on them too much.
You might make mistakes and get hurt along the way, but that’s better than sitting around and wasting your potential because you were scared.
#3: Learn from failures
Mistakes are bad only if you don’t look for the lessons behind them.
People are too busy trying to be perfect and prove that they’re the best – this is an unhealthy attitude.
While it’s important to always make an effort in everything you do, don’t dismiss your failures in the process.
They can help you figure out what you did wrong and how you can do better the next time around.
Don’t see them as moments of defeat, but rather as learning experiences. If anything, they’re an important step in your evolution.
#4: Empower yourself
You create your reality from the inside out. Everything that you experience stems from your inner world.
Your beliefs, character, strengths and weaknesses influence your outer world.
More importantly, the quality of your thoughts attracts circumstances that affect your life. You are more in control of these external forces than you think.
If you keep running into one bad situation after another, it’s quite possible that you need to sort out what’s going on inside you.
You have the power to shape your reality, and it’s just a matter of learning how to tap into it.
The Law of Attraction is one way to do this, but most people fail at using its full potential – including me.
For the longest time, I couldn’t manifest the life I truly wanted – until I made an unexpected breakthrough.
I stumbled upon the missing ingredient of the Law of Attraction that transformed my reality.
Once I had that final piece of the puzzle, everything clicked into place!